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Letters were means of communication in olden days and they were used for every type of communication even to convey the love of a father, husband, teacher, student, mother, message of leader, rules of government or king etc. Some letters written by great people are capable of standing as guideposts to guide us forward in current generation also & to say more intensely than before

.abrahm to his son's teacher    

Abraham Lincoln has also written many such letters being the president of USA but a letter which he wrote to his son’s teacher on his first day of schooling in order to just send a gentle reminder of what he wants the teacher to teach his son so that he can be a good person in the future is our current topic, the letter is really a thought provoking one with a wonderful meaning and message in it, I don’t want to modify it before but after you read the whole letter you can find my insights about (rather the lessons I learnt) from the letter.


My son starts school today. It is all going to be strange and new to him for a while and I wish you would treat him gently. It is an adventure that might take him across continents. All adventures that probably include wars, tragedy and sorrow. To live this life will require faith, love and courage.

So dear Teacher, will you please take him by his hand and teach him things he will have to know, teaching him – but gently, if you can, Teach him that for every enemy, there is a friend. He will have to know that all men are not just, that all men are not true. But teach him also that for every scoundrel there is a hero, that for every crooked politician, there is a dedicated leader.

Teach him if you can that 10 cents earned is of far more value than a dollar found. In school, teacher, it is far more honorable to fail than to cheat. Teach him to learn how to gracefully lose, and enjoy winning when he does win.

Teach him to be gentle with people, tough with tough people. Steer him away from envy if you can and teach him the secret of quiet laughter. Teach him if you can – how to laugh when he is sad, teach him there is no shame in tears. Teach him there can be glory in failure and despair in success. Teach him to scoff at cynics.

Teach him if you can the wonders of books, but also give time to ponder the extreme mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun and flowers on a green hill. Teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone tell him they are wrong.

Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd when everyone else is doing it. Teach him to listen to everyone, but teach him also to filter all that he hears on a screen of truth and take only the good that comes through.

Teach him to sell his talents and brains to the highest bidder but never to put a price tag on his heart and soul. Let him have the courage to be impatient, let him have the patient to be brave. Teach him to have sublime faith in himself, because then he will always have sublime faith in mankind, in God.

This is the order, teacher but see what best you can do. He is such a nice little boy and he is my son.

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Positive Affirmations-Positive Mind Set-Daily stroke for self

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Positive Affirmations-Positive Mind Set-Daily stroke for self

Positive affirmations aren’t a new concept; in fact, they’ve been around for ages. Certain cultures still celebrate and utilize these powerful thinking tools. But somewhere along the way, the Western culture abandoned positive affirmations for self-doubt, closed-minded thinking (if any thinking at all) and societal rules.
Though we can speculate the many reasons why this has happened, the truth is the why doesn’t really matter. The only thing that truly matters is that you become aware of it, and that you recognize when you start to think negatively about your ability to make decisions, your dreams, or who you are as a person. It is at this time that you’ll want to use positive affirmations.
A positive affirmation is simply a positive statement about yourself and your feelings or a situation that you are in. Used to combat negative thinking, it can become a very powerful tool in helping you find peace and happiness within yourself.
The following 101 positive affirmations are designed to help get you started, but you can create your own or customize these to fit your specific situation or need. Learn, use and share them as much as you want! When you make a mistake:

1. I am a whole human being, but I am not perfect, and that is okay.
2. Mistakes are a part of life, but they are not failures; I learn from every experience.
3. My mistake does not define who I am as a person.
4. I am accountable for my mistakes and I right my wrongs by apologizing to those that I have hurt.
5. I have people that love me for who I am, and they are open and willing to accepting my apology.
6. I am allowed to release myself from shame. When you feel lonely:
7. I celebrate solitary moments by making time for myself.
8. I have people in my life that love me and are there for me; they are always with me in spirit.
9. Moments of solitude give me an opportunity to explore more about my faith/spirituality/dreams/truths.
10. I can find comfort in myself and peace in the quiet moments.

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11. I love and accept myself and do not need the company of others to feel happiness.
12. I break through the illusion of loneliness, abandonment and emptiness.
13. I am confident and comfortable when doing things by myself.
14. Doing things by myself gives me feelings of pride and accomplishment. When life or a situation feels impossible or overwhelming:
15. I will overcome my obstacles in time.
16. If I cannot solve a problem on my own, I am resourceful enough to search out the answers.
17. I have people I trust who will give me their support and love during this difficult time.
18. All things pass, and so shall this.
19. I have overcome many obstacles and difficult times in my life and I know that this may change me or my life, but it will be for the better.
20. I can find a little more strength to overcome my obstacles because I haven’t explored all of my options yet.
21. I am a survivor; I am resilient and strong.
22. I rejoice in my accomplishments and successes, and I will soon celebrate this one as well. When you doubt yourself:
23. I am special, unique, wonderful and whole.
24. I am worthy of self-acceptance and love; the acceptance of others is a bonus.
25. Disapproval of others is okay; I still feel fulfilled and loved in life.
26. I have something unique to offer to the world around me, and even though it doesn’t look the same as what someone else may have to offer, it is just as important and beautiful.
27. I trust myself because I use my intuition and take the time to make carefully informed decisions.
28. I deserve love; I give and receive it in abundance.
29. I know how to meet my own needs and desires and do so out of self-love.
30. I give of myself openly, honestly and freely to the world around me; the world welcomes my gift. When you’re unhappy or depressed:
31. Happiness is a state of mind, and I choose to find things in my life to be grateful for.
32. I have the power to change my life and my circumstances.
33. I release what I have no control over, and trust, in time, that I will know if and when I should take any action.
34. Life is what I make of it, and I choose to make it joyful.

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35. I give myself permission to make time for being sad, but right now is not that time.
36. Time will come and go, whether or not I participate. Today, I choose to participate.
37. I am needed, valued and appreciated by others.
38. I am my own best friend and love myself unconditionally. When someone has hurt you:
39. I am a kind, forgiving, gentle and loving; I take comfort in knowing this.
40. I have no control over the actions of others; I do have control over how I allow this to affect me.
41. I embrace forgiveness and release my anger.
42. My time is better spent on loving than on harboring the anger that unforgiveness brings.
43. I live in the present and choose to release the past.
44. I release others from my expectations and give them the freedom to be unique.
45. I place healthy boundaries on my relationships, not for the sake of others, but because I love myself. When you are angry:
46. I am in control, focused, calm and relaxed.
47. I stay calm, even in stressful situations.
48. I diffuse my anger by channeling my emotions into something positive.
49. I am kind and gentle with myself while working through the source of my anger.
50. I release my anger and fill myself with forgiveness, compassion and understanding.
51. I take responsibility for my emotions and apologize to anyone I may have hurt with my words or actions.
52. I communicate my feelings without harming others.
53. I am naturally a calm, easy-going person. When you feel uncomfortable around other people:
54. I am a confident, kind, loving person that others enjoy being around.
55. When I believe in myself, so do those around me.
56. I have a wonderful group of people that respect and love me, just the way I am.
57. I invest myself in heartfelt relationships.
58. I embrace our differences because that is what makes us all special. These differences can teach me something about life and about myself.
59. It is a joy connecting with other people.
60. I am intentional about my connections with others.
61. I naturally attract love and goodness because I radiate the same from my own spirit.

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When you’re stuck in a rut:

62. I am exactly where I need to be right now, but I do not have to stay here forever.
63. Trials help me grow as a person; I reflect and learn something from this experience.
64. I dig deeper and find the motivation to move forward in my life/career/relationships.
65. If I cannot find solutions of my own, I search out people who have knowledge or expertise in this area of my life/situation.
66. I am strong and overcome my current obstacles.
67. Today I welcome the day and choose to do something differently.
68. I am a creative being and recognize that my life is full of limitless possibilities. When you’re feeling panicked or anxious (but are not in any danger):
69. I am safe and my world is okay.
70. I harness this emotion by breathing slow and deep to calm my mind and body.
71. I inhale peace and calmness and exhale tension and fear.
72. I am optimistic about my life and my future and look forward to it with hope and happiness.
73. I overcome my fear and live life with courage and purpose.
74. My mind, body and spirit are relaxed and calm.
75. No matter what happens, I always land on my feet. When you are facing financial problems:
76. Money does not define who I am.
77. All problems can be solved, and I have the endurance and creativity to find a solution I haven’t tried yet.
78. I have complete control over my finances.
79. I release the stress and worry to embrace peace.
80. All things work themselves out eventually as I overcome my current situation.
81. I welcome financial independence.
82. I keep my mind open as to how overflowing abundance is finding its way into my life. When you feel unfulfilled in work or in life:
83. I am a successful, fulfilled person and embrace the joy in my current career/situation.
84. I enjoy my career because it allows me to grow as a person and live life abundantly.
85. My strong work ethic ensures I get the best projects and regular increases in pay and incentives.

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86. I model good work ethic and responsibility for newer employees.
87. I learn from my seniors and provide them with the respect they rightly deserve.
88. I have a positive relationship with my coworkers and my immediate supervisor.
89. I have control over my career choices and can actively pursue my dreams and desires.
90. I seize good opportunities when they become apparent because I am a successful and dedicated entrepreneur.
91. I am grateful for the successes coming to me. When you’re struggling as a parent:
92. I am a good, confident, loving parent.
93. I love my children unconditionally for who they are, and they return that love to me.
94. I listen to my children and am in tune with their needs.
95. I confidently and calmly deal with situations, and when necessary use loving guidance and discipline.
96. I set a wonderful example for my children by providing them with the patience, understanding, empathy and respect that everyone deserves.
97. I set safe and reasonable limits for myself, not my children.
98. I take joy in spending time with my children.
99. I know how to help my children feel loved, confident and safe.
100. I give my children space to make mistakes and experience life for themselves, but I am always here when they need me.
101. Others see me for the confident, loving, attentive parent that I am.
I trust these affirmations will help you combat any negative situation you’re ever in. I’ve composed these myself, and you’re free to use (and share) them as is or modify them to your heart’s content. Just make sure you write them in present tense and avoid using the word “not” as much as you can! 🙂

Read on to find the words of wisdom that will inspire your heart, motivate your mind in building your business, leading your life, creating success, achieving your goals, and overcoming your fears.
100 Motivational Quotes That Will Inspire You To Be Successful:

1. If you want to achieve greatness stop asking for permission. ~Anonymous
2. Things work out best for those who make the best of how things work out. ~John Wooden
3. To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong. ~Anonymous
4. If you are not willing to risk the usual you will have to settle for the ordinary. ~Jim Rohn
5. Trust because you are willing to accept the risk, not because it’s safe or certain. ~Anonymous
6. Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life – think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success. ~Swami Vivekananda
7. All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them. ~Walt Disney
8. Good things come to people who wait, but better things come to those who go out and get them. ~Anonymous
9. If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got. ~Anonymous
10. Success is walking from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm. ~Winston Churchill
11. Just when the caterpillar thought the world was ending, he turned into a butterfly. ~Proverb
12. Successful entrepreneurs are givers and not takers of positive energy. ~Anonymous
13. Whenever you see a successful person you only see the public glories, never the private sacrifices to reach them. ~Vaibhav Shah
14. Opportunities don’t happen, you create them. ~Chris Grosser
15. Try not to become a person of success, but rather try to become a person of value. ~Albert Einstein
16. Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people. ~Eleanor Roosevelt
17. I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work. ~Thomas A. Edison
18. If you don’t value your time, neither will others. Stop giving away your time and talents- start charging for it. ~Kim Garst
19. A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him. ~David Brinkley
20. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. ~Eleanor Roosevelt
21. The whole secret of a successful life is to find out what is one’s destiny to do, and then do it. ~Henry Ford
22. If you’re going through hell keep going. ~Winston Churchill
23. The ones who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones that do. ~Anonymous
24. Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument. ~Anonymous
25. What seems to us as bitter trials are often blessings in disguise.~ Oscar Wilde
26. The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away. ~Anonymous
27. The distance between insanity and genius is measured only by success. ~Bruce Feirstein
28. When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you. ~Lolly Daskal
29. Don’t be afraid to give up the good to go for the great. ~John D. Rockefeller
30. No masterpiece was ever created by a lazy artist.~ Anonymous
31. Happiness is a butterfly, which when pursued, is always beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you. ~Nathaniel Hawthorne
32. If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough. ~Albert Einstein
33. Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take without forgetting. ~Anonymous
34. Do one thing every day that scares you. ~Anonymous
35. What’s the point of being alive if you don’t at least try to do something remarkable. ~Anonymous
36. Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself. ~Lolly Daskal
37. Nothing in the world is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. ~Anonymous
38. Knowledge is being aware of what you can do. Wisdom is knowing when not to do it. ~Anonymous
39. Your problem isn’t the problem. Your reaction is the problem. ~Anonymous
40. You can do anything, but not everything. ~Anonymous
41. Innovation distinguishes between a leader and a follower. ~Steve Jobs
42. There are two types of people who will tell you that you cannot make a difference in this world: those who are afraid to try and those who are afraid you will succeed. ~Ray Goforth
43. Thinking should become your capital asset, no matter whatever ups and downs you come across in your life. ~Dr. APJ Kalam
44. I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have. ~Thomas Jefferson
45. The starting point of all achievement is desire. ~Napolean Hill
46. Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day-in and day-out. ~Robert Collier
47. If you want to achieve excellence, you can get there today. As of this second, quit doing less-than-excellent work. ~Thomas J. Watson
48. All progress takes place outside the comfort zone. ~Michael John Bobak
49. You may only succeed if you desire succeeding; you may only fail if you do not mind failing. ~Philippos
50. Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear – not absense of fear. ~Mark Twain
51. Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone. ~Pablo Picasso
52. People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing – that’s why we recommend it daily. ~Zig Ziglar
53. We become what we think about most of the time, and that’s the strangest secret. ~Earl Nightingale
54. The only place where success comes before work is in the dictionary. ~Vidal Sassoon
55. The best reason to start an organization is to make meaning; to create a product or service to make the world a better place. ~Guy Kawasaki
56. I find that when you have a real interest in life and a curious life, that sleep is not the most important thing. ~Martha Stewart
57. It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see. ~Anonymous
58. The road to success and the road to failure are almost exactly the same. ~Colin R. Davis
59. The function of leadership is to produce more leaders, not more followers. ~Ralph Nader
60. Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it. ~Maya Angelou
61. As we look ahead into the next century, leaders will be those who empower others. ~Bill Gates
62. A real entrepreneur is somebody who has no safety net underneath them. ~Henry Kravis
63. The first step toward success is taken when you refuse to be a captive of the environment in which you first find yourself. ~Mark Caine
64. People who succeed have momentum. The more they succeed, the more they want to succeed, and the more they find a way to succeed. Similarly, when someone is failing, the tendency is to get on a downward spiral that can even become a self-fulfilling prophecy. ~Tony Robbins
65. When I dare to be powerful – to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid. ~Audre Lorde
66. Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect. ~Mark Twain
67. The successful warrior is the average man, with laser-like focus. ~Bruce Lee
68. Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life — think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success. ~Swami Vivekananda
69. Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success. ~Dale Carnegie
70. If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much. ~ Jim Rohn
71. If you genuinely want something, don’t wait for it — teach yourself to be impatient. ~Gurbaksh Chahal
72. Don’t let the fear of losing be greater than the excitement of winning. ~Robert Kiyosaki
73. If you want to make a permanent change, stop focusing on the size of your problems and start focusing on the size of you! ~T. Harv Eker
74. You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life. ~Steve Jobs
75. Successful people do what unsuccessful people are not willing to doDon’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. ~Jim Rohn
76. The number one reason people fail in life is because they listen to their friends, family, and neighbors. ~Napoleon Hill
77. The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don’t define them, or ever seriously consider them as believable or achievable. Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them. ~Denis Watiley
78. In my experience, there is only one motivation, and that is desire. No reasons or principle contain it or stand against it. ~Jane Smiley
79. Success does not consist in never making mistakes but in never making the same one a second time. ~George Bernard Shaw
80. I don’t want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well. ~Diane Ackerman
81. You must expect great things of yourself before you can do them. ~Michael Jordan
82. Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going. ~Jim Ryun
83. People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing. ~Dale Carnegie
84. There is no chance, no destiny, no fate, that can hinder or control the firm resolve of a determined soul. ~Ella Wheeler Wilcox
85. Our greatest fear should not be of failure but of succeeding at things in life that don’t really matter. ~Francis Chan
86. You’ve got to get up every morning with determination if you’re going to go to bed with satisfaction. ~George Lorimer
87. To be successful you must accept all challenges that come your way. You can’t just accept the ones you like. ~Mike Gafka
88. Success is…knowing your purpose in life, growing to reach your maximum potential, and sowing seeds that benefit others. ~ John C. Maxwell
89. Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice. ~Wayne Dyer
90. To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream, not only plan, but also believe.~ Anatole France
91. Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no help at all. ~Dale Carnegie

92. You measure the size of the accomplishment by the obstacles you had to overcome to reach your goals. ~Booker T. Washington
93. Real difficulties can be overcome; it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable. ~Theodore N. Vail
94. It is better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation. ~Herman Melville
95. Fortune sides with him who dares. ~Virgil
96. Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortune; but great minds rise above it. ~Washington Irving
97. Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor. ~Truman Capote
98. Don’t let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do. ~John R. Wooden
99. You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it. ~Margaret Thatcher
100. A man can be as great as he wants to be. If you believe in yourself and have the courage, the determination, the dedication, the competitive drive and if you are willing to sacrifice the little things in life and pay the price for the things that are worthwhile, it can be done.

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God can not reach everywhere so created mother………………Mother is God……..Almighty

हैलो माँ … में रवि बोल रहा हूँ….,कैसी हो माँ….?

मैं…. मैं…ठीक हूँ बेटे…..,ये बताओ तुम और बहू दोनों कैसे हो?

हम दोनों ठीक है

माँ…आपकी बहुत याद आती है…, ..अच्छा सुनो माँ,में अगले महीने इंडिया आ रहा हूँ…..तुम्हें लेने।

क्या…? हाँ माँ….,अब हम सब साथ ही रहेंगे….,

नीतू कह रही थी माज़ी को अमेरिका ले आओ वहाँ अकेली बहुत परेशान हो रही होंगी।

हैलो ….सुनरही हो माँ…?“हाँ.. बेटे…“,बूढ़ी आंखो से खुशी की अश्रुधारा बह निकली,बेटे और बहू का प्यार नस नस में दौड़ने लगा।

जीवन के सत्तर साल गुजार चुकी सावित्री ने जल्दी से अपने पल्लू से आँसू पोंछे और बेटे से बात करने लगी।

पूरे दो साल बाद बेटा घर आ रहा था।

बूढ़ी सावित्री ने मोहल्ले भरमे दौड़ दौड़ कर ये खबर सबको सुना दी।

सभी खुश थे की चलो बुढ़ापा चैनसे बेटे और बहू के साथ गुजर जाएगा।

रवि अकेला आया था,उसने कहा की माँ हमे जल्दी ही वापिस जाना है इसलिए जो भी💷 रुपया पैसा किसी से लेना है वो लेकर रखलों और तब तक मे किसी प्रोपेर्टी डीलर स मकान की बात करता हूँ।

“मकान…?”, माँ ने पूछा। हाँ माँ,अब ये मकान बेचना पड़ेगा वरना कौन इसकी देखभाल करेगा।

हम सबतो अब अमेरिका मे ही रहेंगे।बूढ़ी आंखो न मकान के कोने कोने को ऐसे निहारा जैसे किसी अबोध बच्चे को सहला रही हो।

आनन फानन और औने-पौने दाम मे रवि ने मकान बेच दिया।

सावित्री देवी ने वो जरूरी सामान समेटा जिस से उनको बहुत ज्यादा लगाव था।

रवि टैक्सी मँगवा चुका था। एयरपोर्ट पहुँचकर रवि ने कहा,”माँ तुम यहाँ बैठो मे अंदर जाकर सामान की जांच और बोर्डिंग और विजा का काम निपटा लेता हूँ।

““ठीक है बेटे।“,सावित्री देवी वही पास की बेंच पर बैठ गई।

काफी समय बीत चुका था। बाहर बैठी सावित्री देवी बार बार उस दरवाजे की तरफ देख रही थी जिसमे रवि गया था लेकिन अभी तक बाहर नहीं आया।‘

शायद अंदर बहुत भीड़ होगी…’,सोचकर बूढ़ी आंखे फिर से टकट की लगाए देखने लगती।

अंधेरा हो चुका था। एयरपोर्ट के बाहरगहमागहमी कम हो चुकी थी।

“माजी…,किस से मिलना है?”,एक कर्मचारी नेवृद्धा से
पूछा ।

“मेरा बेटा अंदर गया था….टिकिट लेने,वो मुझे अमेरिका लेकर जा रहा है ….”,सावित्री देबी ने घबराकर कहा।

“लेकिन अंदर तो कोई पैसेंजर नहीं है,अमेरिका जाने वाली फ्लाइट तो दोपहर मे ही चली गई। क्या नाम था आपके बेटे
का?” ,कर्मचारी ने सवाल किया।

“र….रवि. …”, सावित्री के चेहरे पे चिंता की लकीरें उभर आई।

कर्मचारी अंदर गया और कुछ देर बाद बाहर आकर बोला,“माजी….

आपका बेटा रवि तो अमेरिका जाने वाली फ्लाइट से कब का जा चुका…।”“क्या. ? ”

वृद्धा कि आखो से आँसुओं का सैलाब फुट पड़ा।

बूढ़ी माँ का रोम रोम कांप उठा। किसी तरह वापिस घर पहुंची जो अब बिक चुका था।

रात में घर के बाहर चबूतरे पर ही सो गई।सुबह हुई तो दयालु मकान मालिक ने एक कमरा रहने को दे दिया।

पति की पेंशन से घर का किराया और खाने का काम चलने

समय गुजरने लगा। एक दिन मकान मालिक ने वृद्धा से पूछा।

“माजी… क्यों नही आप अपने किसी रिश्तेदार के यहाँ चली जाए,अब आपकी उम्र भी बहुत हो गई,अकेली कब तक रह पाएँगी।“

“हाँ,चली तो जाऊँ,लेकिन कल को मेरा बेटा आया तो..?,
यहाँ फिर कौन उसका ख्याल रखेगा?“……

आखँ से आसू आने लग गए दोस्तों ….!!!

माँ बाप का दिल कभी मत दुखाना 👬दोस्तों मेरी आपसे ये हाथ जोड़कर विनती है

ये पोस्ट को अपने 👬👭दोस्तों के साथ जरुर शेयर करे ।।

धन्यवाद आप सबका जो आपने अपना कीमती समय निकाल कर इस पोस्ट को दिया

‘माँ’ तो ‘माँ’ होती है…

અનોખી ભેટ-જિમ સ્ટોવેલ – સેમિનાર બાય પ્રોફ.લલિતચ્ંદે

wm_26022015010227011     જીવન જીવવું એ કળા છે.ઘણી વખત જિંદગી મા બનતી ઘટના ને વ્યક્તિ ખુલા મને અને દૂર દ્રષ્ટિ વગર વિચારે અને જીવે તો શક્ય છે કે જે તેના નશીબ માં હોય કે મળવાનું હોય તો શક્ય છે કે ના પણ મળે.કશુક પ્રાપ્ત કરવા માટે હ્રદય પૂર્વક પ્રયત્ન કરવા માં આવેલા હોય તો એ પ્રાપ્તિ નો આનંદ પણ મળે અને મૂલ્ય પણ સમજાય.પ્રેમ ,સબંધ ,સમૃધ્ધી ,સંપતિ વગર મેહનતે પ્રાપ્ત થાય તો તેનું ગૌરવ ની અનુભૂતિ થઈ શકે નહીં પરંતુ તેને પ્રાપ્ત કરવા માટે ચોક્કસ પરિશ્રમ કરવામાં આવ્યો હોય તો વ્યક્તિ એનું મૂલ્ય અને ગૌરવ સમજી તેને માણી શકશે અને ટકાવી પણ શકશે.

“ અંતિમ મુલ્યવાન ભેટ કે અનોખી ભેટ “ જે ઉત્કૃષ્ઠ જીવન જીવવા માટે તેમજ ગૌરવ પૂર્ણ જીવન જીવવા ના પ્રયત્ન કરવા માંગતા હોય અને જીવન ને એક ચોક્કસ અર્થ આપવા માંગતા હોય તેવા કોઈ પણ ઉમરના વ્યક્તિ ને સ્પર્શી શકે તેવી કિતાબ છે , જે ની લાખો પ્રતો વેચાણી અને દુનિયા ભરમાં વંચાઇ છે.આ જ કિતાબ પર એજ નામે ફિલ્મ પણ બની અને અનેક એવાર્ડ પ્રાપ્ત કર્યા.બૂક ના લેખક જિમ સ્ટોવેલ ના વિચાર અને તેનું ખુદ જીવન પણ પ્રેરણા નો સ્ત્રોત છે.આ બૂક અને ફિલ્મ પર આધારિત પ્રોફ.લલિત ચ્ંદે નો મૂલ્ય આધારિત જીવન જીવવા માટે અતિ ઉપયોગી થાય તેવો સેમિનાર વ્યક્તિ ને જીવન વધારે સારી રીતે જીવી અને જીવન ઉદાહરણ રૂપ બનાવવા માટે 100% મદદ કરશે.

શાળા , કોલેજ , મિત્રો ,પરિવાર અને સબંધીઓ સાથે સેમિનાર આયોજન આપ પણ પોતાના લોકો માટે કરી શકો છો. ઓછામાં ઓછા 30 વ્યક્તિ થી લઈ ને 3000 નું ઓડિયન્સ માટે 2 કલાક નો આ સેમિનાર કરી શકાય. આ સેમિનાર એ સમાજ મા જીવન જીવવા માટે ખૂબ ઉપયોગી મૂલ્યો નો સમાજ મા નાના મોટા સૌ મા સંચાર થાય અને જિંદગી જે અમાપ સુખ અને સમૃધ્ધિ થી છલોછલ છે તેને તેજ પરિપ્રેક્ષ્ય માં માણી શકાય તેવા ઉદેશ્ય માટે આપ પણ આપના વર્તુળ માં સેમિનાર નું આયોજન કરીશકો છો.

રાજકોટ શહેર માં તેમજ બહાર ગામ આયોજન કરવા માટે સંપર્ક કરો – આ સેમિનાર ની ફીસ ( charges ) અમે નક્કી કરેલ નથી.અમારા સામાજિક જિમ્મેદારી ના ભાગ રૂપે માસ ટ્રાન્સફોર્મેસન( સામૂહિક રૂપાંતરણ )માટે ના આ ઉમદા મિશન મા સહ ભાગી બની શકો છો. 

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12 Interesting Facts About Languages

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Language is a complex and fascinating aspect of our lives that scientists believe to have evolved out of a series of grunts and hand gestures. From those primitive beginnings, languages have been born and have died, with complex systems of understanding built on basic foundations. Here are some of the most interesting language facts from around the world.

1. There are 2,700 languages with over 7,000 individual dialects spoken around the world today. The most widely spoken languages are Chinese, Spanish, English, and Hindi, in that order. Chinese, the most spoken language around the world, has over 50,000 characters. But you only need to know 2,000 of those characters to be able to read the newspaper.

2. Every two weeks, another language dies. Or, perhaps, a dialect. There are over 231 completely extinct languages and 2,400 of the world’s languages are considered to be in danger of dying out.

3. The Bible is the most widely translated book available in 2,454 different languages. Pinnochio is a close second. But the world’s most translated author is Agatha Christie.

4. The language with the largest alphabet in the world belongs to the Cambodian language Khmer and is 74 characters long. The shortest alphabet is 12 characters long, and belongs to Rotokas. The language with the most words, however, is English, boasting over 250,000 words.

5. Over 300 languages are spoken in the United States, but South Africa holds the record for the country with the most official languages (11). Of the population of the United States, 21% of citizens five years and older speak another language at home. Of that 21 percent, 62% speak Spanish. And of those Spanish speakers, 56% speak English “very well.”

6. The oldest known languages include Sanskrit, Sumerian, Hebrew, and Basque. But, the only reason we really know this is because there is a written record of those languages. The answer to the question, “What is the oldest language?” can never truly be answered, as it doesn’t take spoken languages with oral traditions into consideration.

7. Language is thought to have originated circa 100,00 BC. The question of how old language is is still being debated, but most linguists agree that it began around the time when modern humans (homo sapiens) evolved in Africa with modern skull shapes and modern vocal chords. With the proper tools in place — skull size, brain, and voice box — it should have meant the development of language. Some anthropologists even speculate that language could have developed prior to the physiological development of modern brains and larynges, but 100,000 BC is a good starting point from which to begin.

8. Language developed to strengthen social ties amongst our ancestors. A study of macaque monkeys supports the idea that languages may have evolved to replace grooming as a better way of forging interpersonal bonds. But another theory is that our ancestors began to develop language by imitating natural sounds, like bird calls and animal noises. And another theory is that human communication may have started with the emanation of involuntary sounds: distress sounds from pain or surprise, or wails of sadness, or cheers of joy or triumph.

9. Learning a second language can make you smarter. A number of scientists agree that becoming polyglot can boost your brainpower. Other studies also suggest that speaking more than one language can help to slow down the aging process of the mind.

10. Languages are constantly influencing each other. For example, the English language is, in itself, 30% French, as it has adopted words through lexical borrowings. This is particularly true when we think about ballet, as almost all of the words that describe that style of dance are in French.

11. There are over 200 artificial languages that have been invented for books, television, and movies, including 13 distinct languages in the Tolkien universe. But “fake” languages date back centuries when languages were invented for the purposes of philosophical debate.

12. Despite that, onomatopoeias are not shared across languages. Rice Krispies in the United States go ‘snap, crackle, and pop.’ But in Germany, they go ‘Knisper! Knasper! Knusper!’ In France, they go ‘Cric! Crac! Croc!’ and in Spain, they go ‘Cris! Cras! Cros!’

Bees don’t buzz in Afrikaans, they go ‘zoem-zoem’. And while cats say “meow” in America, they say “meo-meo” in Vietnam, “nau” in Estonia, and “ngjau” in Malay.

Cows are sacred in India, but they don’t say “moo” in Bengali, they say “hamba”.

Thai owls say “hook hook” instead of “hoot”, and Albanian pigs don’t say “oink”, they say “hunk hunk.”